i know hetero people who use it to describe themselves. not my thing, personally, but they do it a) to show solidarity [like being an ally] and/or b) to show that hetero is just as weird/normal as anything else.
they do this with the full support of the LGBTQAAetc community around them. and i know quite a few non-hetero people who use it to describe themselves (sometimes exclusively, sometimes as an alternate to gay or lesbian or trans or whatnot).
and, as an aside, i have no idea what sort of LGBTQAetc communities you're familiar with, but the circles i run in are very, very open-minded and non-judgmental.
i must admit, i found you more closed-minded than i expected - is that a reaction? the views i've heard you express towards monogamous couples and anyone with a desire to marry are on par with some of the fundies' outpouring. just curious about that, since we never really got any time to talk about that, and i've wondered.
Posted by 79 at 9:50pm Dec 30 '13
totally - 79