Posted by Kromey at 6:28pm Sep 18 '09Also, this reminds me of the vid...I wanna say it was called safe sex or something like that? It was two people signing papers, with attorneys present, before engaging in sexual activity.
How long 'til that's a prerequisite of responsible one-night-stands?
For those of us into BDSM, stories like this are absolutely terrifying. For the why, just read some of the comments below, most notably the one to the effect of "rope and a public place? no wonder it was thought to be non-consensual!". It's that kind of perception - that the immediate assumption of so many people once any kind of restraint or domination or pain comes into the picture is that it's non-consensual - that petrifies those of us for whom that type of activity is part of our everyday play.
There are people in the BDSM community who very strongly encourage others to always sign consent agreements with any partner for just this reason.
How long 'til that's a prerequisite of responsible one-night-stands?
For those of us into BDSM, stories like this are absolutely terrifying. For the why, just read some of the comments below, most notably the one to the effect of "rope and a public place? no wonder it was thought to be non-consensual!". It's that kind of perception - that the immediate assumption of so many people once any kind of restraint or domination or pain comes into the picture is that it's non-consensual - that petrifies those of us for whom that type of activity is part of our everyday play.
There are people in the BDSM community who very strongly encourage others to always sign consent agreements with any partner for just this reason.
It damn near already is - Kromey