Posted by Kazper at 1:05pm Jul 14 '08
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Just because you ellipse something most of the time doesn't mean you have to ellipse it all of the time. Unellipse it when needed to solve a problem or when desired... just because.
To hit a roadblock in the development of a project and to not abandon the project is a skill I definitely need to work on. Things do not have to be perfect (whatever that really is). Ad hoc solutions may be messy and you may be frustrated that you can't articulate nearly everything but the mess can add character and maybe even bring you some joy.
We can all be ignorant and start judging one who we think is a slacker that takes advantage. Even I (one who feels like the recipient of such judgement on a fairly regular basis) can still make such judgements. So, I must contain my anger and show some understanding while at the same time still insisting that 'We must remember the burdens we choose to put on ourselves so as to not burden others because of our choices.'.
Do not be so arrogant that you think your sight is infallible. There can be various reasons for the various actions we do. And it is not true that if you happen to be right in an instance that you're right every other time. I again say, since we have to follow our instincts and experiences, that we follow our instincts and experiences with the understanding that we may be wrong and so, treat the ones we avoid without anger (though there may be some initially) and hate. We do not attempt to make their lives difficult through any means (such as rumour). We simply act in a plain way.
What's most frustrating is continually tryin' to communicate with old friends who after a short time abruptly stop communicating back. I either gotta get used to it or stop trying, to avoid getting continuously upset.
I understand that not everyone who adds friends to their facebook that they don't talk to are tryin' to be pretentious or whatever (there can be various reasons) but if you're one of them at least respond to those you don't wanna talk to and tell 'em you're more interested in a different type of relationship. It's very annoying when you just ignore.
~Shawn Savoie~
~Ottawa, Ontario, Canada~
To hit a roadblock in the development of a project and to not abandon the project is a skill I definitely need to work on. Things do not have to be perfect (whatever that really is). Ad hoc solutions may be messy and you may be frustrated that you can't articulate nearly everything but the mess can add character and maybe even bring you some joy.
We can all be ignorant and start judging one who we think is a slacker that takes advantage. Even I (one who feels like the recipient of such judgement on a fairly regular basis) can still make such judgements. So, I must contain my anger and show some understanding while at the same time still insisting that 'We must remember the burdens we choose to put on ourselves so as to not burden others because of our choices.'.
Do not be so arrogant that you think your sight is infallible. There can be various reasons for the various actions we do. And it is not true that if you happen to be right in an instance that you're right every other time. I again say, since we have to follow our instincts and experiences, that we follow our instincts and experiences with the understanding that we may be wrong and so, treat the ones we avoid without anger (though there may be some initially) and hate. We do not attempt to make their lives difficult through any means (such as rumour). We simply act in a plain way.
What's most frustrating is continually tryin' to communicate with old friends who after a short time abruptly stop communicating back. I either gotta get used to it or stop trying, to avoid getting continuously upset.
I understand that not everyone who adds friends to their facebook that they don't talk to are tryin' to be pretentious or whatever (there can be various reasons) but if you're one of them at least respond to those you don't wanna talk to and tell 'em you're more interested in a different type of relationship. It's very annoying when you just ignore.
~Shawn Savoie~
~Ottawa, Ontario, Canada~